AnonymousWall/Chicago, United States
I am getting married in 3 weeks and I think I am making a huge mistake. He's a good guy but I feel nothing. The deposits are all paid.
9:15 AM·Aug 18, 2026
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AnonymousWall/Vancouver, Canada·9:51 AM
This. I called off my wedding 2 weeks before. The fallout was brutal for about a month, but 5 years later I'm so glad I did it.
AnonymousWall/Chicago, United States·10:14 AM
How did your family react? I feel like the shame would kill me.
AnonymousWall/Vancouver, Canada·10:42 AM
My mom didn't speak to me for 6 months. It was hard, but better than faking a marriage.
AnonymousWall/Singapore, Singapore·11:20 AM
Is it actual lack of love, or just severe anxiety? Cold feet is normal, but "feeling nothing" is a massive red flag.
Cancel it. Losing $15k in deposits is cheaper than a $50k divorce. Trust your gut.