Talked every day for 9 months, met each other's families, went on trips, and yesterday when I asked "what are we", they said "I'm really just focusing on my personal growth right now". I feel sick.
Harsh delivery but 100% true. If they wanted to commit, they would have locked it down by month 2.
Month 2? Even 6 weeks is plenty of time to know someone's intentions.
Y'all are moving fast. 3 months is the standard probation period.
Probation period? Are you dating or conducting a corporate hiring cycle lmao
Block immediately. Do not fall for the "let's stay best friends" trap, you will end up watching them date someone else in 3 weeks.
Can confirm. Tried the "staying mature friends" route, ended up burning RM2,000 on therapy.
9 months without a label is a whole pregnancy of delusion. Never give relationship privileges on a free trial subscription.